Hello all! I’ve been meaning to write about this for quite some time but have never gotten the chance to get around to it, well until now at least. Here’s a question to ask. Are you a listener? I mean, we all listen to people one way or another, but do you really listen when people tell you things or do you just tune out to when somebody else talks to you? In most of my experiences, I’ve found that most people don’t really hear what I have to say. I’m largely ignored or when I am heard my thoughts and opinions are dismissed as being any form of negative. It gets annoying, so over time, I’ve learned to just keep most thoughts to myself, well that is until I discovered WordPress. I think this is the only place that I find myself to be free to express myself any way I’d like and not be judged on it. This is why I keep writing here. I don’t know the majority of you followers personally, but those of us who mutually follow each other share the same ideas of freedom of expression to get those things that just gnaw at us out and away from us purging whatever emotion that may be. I don’t know where I’d be without this outlet, if you want me to be honest. I have a hard enough time as it is out in the real world keeping it together mentally, and when things get too bottled up, I come here to release them.
That brings me to the story I’ve wanted to tell. I have an acquaintance who seems to be even more introverted and secluded than I am. That’s saying a lot, actually. Dude makes me look like a social butterfly, actually. Anyway, to put things shortly, he just doesn’t fit it. He’s quiet, doesn’t like to be part of any groups, and he just makes it an open effort to not be included in anything. The strange part is that I love to talk to him. I understand him. I know what he’s going through feeling like the outcast, and maybe that’s the big thing that draws me to him. I know other people I know talk to him and what not, but I don’t think people listen to him. He’s generally misunderstood by everybody, but I know where he’s coming from and I make it a point to listen to him and let him freely express his thoughts. I interject with them because well, it’s the right thing to do, but also because I generally agree with his ideas and if I don’t, I want to hear the reasoning of his thoughts. I don’t know if he knows this or not, but I look forward to every conversation we have because not only does he excite the thinking part of my brain, but I feel like I help him out by just simply listening to him when it seems like nobody else will.
I seem to have that talent, actually. I attract the misfits and outcasts. Hell, I count myself as part of them, so why would I turn my back away from a fellow weirdo? We all need a voice that deserves to be heard without judgement or criticism. My buddy has me, and I have y’all. Thank you for listening to me, even if you never actually comment on this thing.