Hey y’all! I’m still processing the fact that we’re now in 2019. What has happened to the time?! I mean, I just turned 38 last month, but think about that… 1980 was damn near 40 years ago! I’m still listening and prefer music from 1989 all the way back to the early 1920s! Holy SMOKES. The 1920s! That was ONE HUNDRED years ago! It’s hard for me to believe. It really is. I always envisioned the future to be, well futuristic. LOL. Maybe it is in comparison to the 1970s and 1980s with the tech I grew up with, but generally things are the same.
That idea of time I have which I could go into more detail about was brought on by a topic brought up to me yesterday. Bucket lists. Do you have one? I thought I did for a second there, but I soon realized that I really don’t have one. As Dictionary.com puts it, a bucket list is “a list of things a person wants to achieve or experience, as before reaching a certain age or dying.” Right on Front Street, isn’t it? I don’t know if this makes me even more weird than I know I already am, but I really don’t have goals that I want to achieve or things I want to experience by a certain age. I find that putting things like that to strive for in the future just makes those things unattainable in a sense. I lose my track in the present dreaming about the future and end up messing things up. Does that make any sense? It has happened too many times that I get distracted day dreaming about a possible future and end up messing something up in the present. Plus, most of those things never came true anyway, so I figured why not live in the now? Odd, right? I mean, if I were pressed to say some sort of bucket list thing that I think could possibly be attainable or that I really want to do, it would be to visit Rome and The Vatican, specifically. As a practicing Catholic, I should want to see that. But those other worldly possession or vacation ideas that a lot of people strive for, I couldn’t care less for. I know that may sound strange and out of left field, but it’s really how I feel. I have no desire to climb a mountain, skydive, or do some other sort of potentially dangerous act. I actually have a strong sense of self-preservation that keeps me from putting myself in too much of harm’s way. Monetary desires, winning a lottery notwithstanding, are also out of the window for me. I don’t strive to chase that extra dollar. That’s not how God wants me to live. What I need, He will provide. I don’t need to worry, nor do I need to collect up treasures here on earth. I have no desire to, either.
So what is it that I live for? In a few words, I live for love, happiness, and comfort. I want to give the people I’m close to all the love I can, and I want to be happy as much as I can. I also just want to be comfortable. Now, that last term can be a pretty broad one, I know, but comfort for me is more about peace than anything else. I want to be comfortable with myself, with the people I associate with, with my surroundings, and with my life in general. As long as all that is present, I want for nothing more. I’m honestly a pretty simple person, actually. I try to find the joy in everything that I do, even the most simple and boring of tasks. I try not to dwell on the negative in life and I also try to live in the moment. I have my good and my bad days, but for the last few years at least, I’ve had a lot more good than bad days.
On another topic that I have been thinking about, how do y’all feel about the typical adult tasks that we have to do? I’m talking about cleaning, laundry, cooking, and shopping? I’ve been in conversations recently where other people absolutely despise shopping and have gone out of their way as to do their grocery shopping online and picking it up instead so that they really don’t even have to do it at all. Others I’ve heard of, for as old as they are, have no clue how to do laundry, clean, or cook for themselves and don’t have any desire to learn. I find all of this to be insane in my point of view. I know that I’m the weirdo, but one of the things that I like to do the most is to go grocery and other needed items shopping. It’s fun to get dinner ideas, explore new items, and to just be part of society. I know, as an introvert, I should be avoiding people, but I guess being in that environment, it makes me feel like I’m actually part of something. Silly, I know, but I really just enjoy it. As far as cooking and cleaning, man! I have fun doing those things as well! There’s nothing better, in my opinion, than that just cleaned house and laundry done and folded away feeling. I look forward to that every week. I like to have things in their proper place and clean at that!
So, I don’t know. Am I the one in the wrong here to not have these grandiose ideas of wealth, fame, power, etc.? Or am I in the wrong for liking to shop, clean, and do laundry? Not in my personal opinion, because it’s what keeps me relatively happy, but I do think if I’m the exception to the rule in this world.
Talk next time, friends!